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You don’t have to deal with this alone. Choose what you need support with.

Many organisations are here to support you

In Schleswig-Holstein, Hamburg, Bremen and Lower Saxony there are organisations and counselling services from the queer community, plus services that offer counselling nationwide or online. They inform, advise and support you, depending on what you need. We have sorted them by topic.

Not sure where to start? Then choose “I don’t know where to start” in the counselling finder. There you’ll find services that can point you in the right direction.

What counselling do you need?

Choose what you need help with. We’ll show you suitable services in Schleswig-Holstein, Hamburg, Bremen and Lower Saxony, as well as nationwide.

Where are you looking? Choose your federal state:

Without a selection you’ll see all services. Nationwide services appear under every federal state and are marked separately.

The network behind it

Schleswig-Holstein: “Echte Vielfalt” (“real diversity”) is the motto of the action plan for the acceptance of diverse sexual identities. It was created in 2014 by a unanimous decision of the state parliament and has since been supported by a broad alliance from the queer community. On echte-vielfalt.de you will find the services of the network partners sorted by topic.

All counselling services (echte-vielfalt.de) (opens in a new tab) To the action plan (opens in a new tab)

Hamburg: In April 2023 the Senate adopted the update of its action plan under the new name “Hamburg l(i)ebt vielfältig” (“Hamburg loves and lives diversity”). Its aim is to promote the recognition of gay, lesbian and bisexual as well as trans* and inter* people and to take action against discrimination.

To the action plan (hamburg.de) (opens in a new tab) Action plan as PDF (opens in a new tab)

Bremen: The Senate adopted the action plan against homophobia, transphobia and interphobia on 10 February 2015. It aims to reduce disadvantages, raise awareness in the wider society for respectful interaction and specifically strengthen queer people. All Bremen authorities and the Bremerhaven municipal administration are involved through contact persons. The second implementation report was published in 2023.

To the action plan (soziales.bremen.de) (opens in a new tab) Action plan as PDF (opens in a new tab) 2023 report as PDF (opens in a new tab)

Lower Saxony: The state government is drawing up the first statewide action plan for queer people. It is being developed together with the administration and the queer community, including the Queeres Netzwerk Niedersachsen (QNN). The plan aims to strengthen the protection, visibility and acceptance of LGBTIQ* people and set out a roadmap for the coming years. Once it is finished, the Ministry of Social Affairs will publish it.

To the action plan (ms.niedersachsen.de) (opens in a new tab)

All services from A to Z

Sorted by federal state. Tap a region to open the list.

Schleswig-Holstein 34 services
Hamburg 25 services
Bremen 10 services
Lower Saxony 28 services
Nationwide 13 services

Sources: counselling services on echte-vielfalt.de (opens in a new tab) , the Hamburg Police overview (opens in a new tab) , the lists “Angebote und Anlaufstellen zu Sexualität, sexueller und geschlechtlicher Vielfalt” (services on sexuality and sexual and gender diversity) by Dissens – Institut für Bildung und Forschung (opens in a new tab) as well as information from the Bremen Police and the Lower Saxony Police. Please check the contact details on the providers’ websites.

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Not sure where to start?

The police in Schleswig-Holstein, Hamburg, Bremen and Lower Saxony have LGBTIQ* liaison officers. They advise you confidentially and help you with the next steps.